tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14637618.post3429266037503134396..comments2023-10-30T09:08:02.141-06:00Comments on As Days Go By: Some E Cards for HealingTrixiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08186256024588576955noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14637618.post-26172016510975858632012-01-18T02:42:22.187-07:002012-01-18T02:42:22.187-07:00Hey! I take offense to all women being devious. ...Hey! I take offense to all women being devious. I am not devious and know other women who are not the least devious. I'm just saying.<br /><br />Many years ago I remember thinking there was nothing left of me when I lost my man. I was suicidal. Literally.<br /><br />What I learned was: I really didn't want to die. No one else can or should be my entire life's purpose. No one else can or should be a big bandaid for my wounded self. I had to work on healing myself...on my own. Self pity isn't pretty. If I didn't like myself, there was no reason on earth for anybody else to. I was the only person responsible for me and had to stop thinking some prince charming was going to come along and fix me just because I was too tired to deal with my very own crappy life. That magical "if somebody just really loved me" everything will be okay thinking...not healthy. <br /><br />I am just telling you what I went through. And I can tell you: you are worthwhile...just you. You are not alone. Stick with your counseling. Work on you. Be kinder to yourself. Stop pushing and fighting. Slow down. Rest. Spoil yourself. Love up your Dude. Paint. Draw. Journal. God doesn't make junk. ;)Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02043285884495492598noreply@blogger.com