Feisty, Fierce and Fabulous in 10 Easy Steps

This year I have been working on focusing my goals, desires and habits towards positive and uplifting things. a friend recently bought me a gift of Brave Girls Club courses and then today I got invested in Daily Om Courses.

Out of all the things that seem to resonate with me the words of my title are what keep popping out to me

 FEISTY FIERCE AND FABULOUS!!

I strongly feel that is what I need to power through this year.

I need courses and guides and planners and dreambooks that put me and keep me on this path.

So far January isn't over yet but I already feel like I have a great plan for my upcoming year to do just that! Stay on the path. I laugh inside because my mantra for my successful businesses in teh past few years have been "Stay True to the Brand". Of course, why wouldn't I do the same with my own personal life. Stay True to My Path. or Stay True to the Path.

To do this, here is what I have done so far.

Step One: Buy Dreambook and Planner from Dragontree http://dreambook.vision/

Step Two: Work Dreambook consistently to focus on my one year, three year, ten year and lifetime goals. (not an easy task mind you when one is fighting colon cancer) As well as stay up to date on regular planning, note taking and journaling.

Step Three: Stay active in Dragontree Facebook group for inspiration and motivation for the plan
https://www.facebook.com/groups/dreamingandplanning/?ref=bookmarks&qsefr=1


Step Four: Get reactivated in Brave Girls Courses (These really helped me back in 2011 when I was really struggling with some interpersonal things and I just knew it would do the same for me now. I am very grateful to my friend who bought me a 3 month subscription to this as a gift)
http://my.bravegirlsclub.com/courses

Step Five: Join Bad Ass Habits from Daily Om (I have done the first two days and am already enthralled with this course)  The habit I have chosen to focus on is Daily Yoga practice. I have had some pretty severe muscle fatigue and neuropathy in my body and hands from my first round of Chemotherapy. Lock jaw, teeth sensitivity as well, and slight nausea, but those went away in a few days. The muscle fatigue and the pain in my hands has been more than I can bear. Luckily after doing two days of yoga, I can type and function with my hands again. Which, for a blogger, make a HUGE difference in my overall emotional well being. I jsut always feel like even I am just typing my words down and no one reads them, I am getting those emotions out and that alone makes me feel better. Then add to it the fact that someone MIGHT see my posts and I MIGHT make a difference in someone elses life, that means the world to me. http://dailyom.com/cgi-bin/courses/courses.cgi

Step Six: (This is SUCH a girl thing) Only use the Bad Ass Purse. The Bad Ass Purse is black leather, studded and looks like a motorcycle bag to me. Motorcycles are bad ass, so to me, this purse is also bad ass, kick ass. It makes me feel empowered to use it and make me feel like I can conquer anything.

Step Seven: The Bad Ass clothes (again such a girl thing) I have a black vest that I wear as often as possible. I have been using black eyeliner nearly every chance I get. I put hair chalk in my hair to bring out the fierce and feisty and fabulous in me. I wear what I want, when I want even if others think my style might be a little outrageous. The more outrageous the better! I wear my kick ass (but easy to get into) suede boots or my little gray ones with a silver buckle because both of them say FIERCE to me.

Step Eight: Use Asana to keep all my projects in line and to stay on top of my goals and habits for this upcoming year of 2017 www.asana.com

Step Nine: Update and follow my Pursuit of Excellence Goals for this year. Also place in Asana to stay up to date with it. https://trishatrixie.wordpress.com/2016/05/10/pursuit-of-excellence

Step Ten: Live life to those ideals I have laid out. Remember to be Feisty, Fierce, and Fabulous no matter what, all year long, every minute of every day!

XoXo~ Trisha Trixie

There is a new Sheriff in town...Bad Ass Kick Ass Trisha...Watch out!

Word to all...Fair Warning there is a new Sheriff in town...Bad Ass Kick Ass Trisha...Watch out!

I am done getting walked on. I am done getting shit all over. I am tired of cleaning myself up after everyone else has walked on me, stomped on me, left me in the dirt, blamed me, or pointed their finger instead of themselves.

I am tired of men using me for sex, making unwanted and unwarranted sexual advances toward me on Social Media or in public, rude remarks or treating my Social Media space like it is a hook up wall. I will not tolerate nasty, snide, crude, rude or offensive remarks to be posted anymore. If you do this, there will not be room for apologies, FB Messages or excuses. YOU WILL BE DELETED AND BLOCKED IMMEDIATELY. I am done allowing men to treat me badly, string me along, or keep me on a hook. I will protect my Soul House Fiercely. You will treat me like a lady or you will be banished.

Friends will be sincere and kind to me in their remarks and comments to things I post. If you don't like it, UN-FRIEND ME! There is no room in anyone's life for Toxic people or Toxic situations. Those days are of my past not my present and NOT my future. You are allowed to your opinion though it should come with respect. If you are unable to share your opinion without respect, there's the door...see yourself out and don't let it hit you in the Ass on the way out!!

Business contacts and connections will treat me like the equal that I am and stop talking down to me. I have just as much knowledge, brains and power as you, maybe sometimes more. Just because you had capital, investors or daddy's and mommy's with big bank accounts does not make you a success!

The New Radical Fierce Self Respecting Trisha is here to stay so you all better get used to it or GTFO! You thought I was weird unusual or "crazy" before...well, you all are gonna see a new kind of Bad Ass Kick Ass Krazy from me with a capital "K" you aint never seen before! Watch out world...here comes KRAZY Miss Trisha!! POW POW!

Lessons learned from Stephanie St. Claire's Blissbombed Bad Ass Broad Workshop!!
www.blissbombed.com

Trying New Things

While I am here I am not only willing but hoping ans asking to try new things. Many of those things I would never do before stating I was weak or frail or someone like me could NEVER do that! Well, it just so happens I got the chance to do  few of those things.

4 Wheel Snow Plowing!

The ATV had a cover and is a utility 4 wheeler and my friend Cindy showed me how to maneuver it so we could snow plow her Log Hill house that is up in the mountains. If we don't plow it on a regular basis the snow would be there until June she said! WOW!

I took my camera with me so we could even document the adventure!

Me the hick in the plow

The road I helped plow

Homemade jerky I made her stop by

 GUNS!

Then today we went back up to the hill and went shooting. Cindy set up the targets and taught me the basics of shooting. Holding a gun, learning the basics of a gun and shooting were towards the top on my bucket list. I had a fun day and released a lot of fears.

This little snubnose 38 was my fav

Cindy setting up the target

the guns outside on the tarp

the board for our butts :)

The target

My ear cover

The target after we both were done

Me with a Hunting Rifle (this was heavy but I hit my target)

Semi Automatic (kept sticking but fun for what I got to shoot)

Snubnose .38 (my fav)

The shells afterwards

Exploring new things has been fun for me but even more so being able release fears about things like guns that I had has been an amazing experience for me. I continually hear that if you do things you are afraid of in life, it will help you in other areas of your life, like work, business, etc.

Little by little I am releasing those fears and learning about new things I have always wanted to do and try.

I drove an ATV before when I visited Colorado another time and that one was more recreational than this one, where this was more utility. IT was harder to hold, but still fun. I think I would really like to do 4 wheeling more often.

I enjoyed shooting the guns and now want more than ever to go to a concealed weapons class as well as learn how to skill shoot a handgun and also how to skeet shoot.

The "Miss Priss" in me before believed others when they said I couldn't' do this or wouldn't' like it. Well, what do they know. In fact, I loved it! ALOT!

Over and over I am reminded by these things to not believe what others say to you and to stop swallowing it whole. I need to be me, myself. I need to stand up for myself and be how I want to be. I need to stand up for myself and do the things I want to do.

The people in my life are either going to accept that, or they can just get outta my soul house! :)

One step at a time I am getting my Bad Ass, Kick Ass together.

Watch out world...here I come!