Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Looking for Love

You would be surprised how many of us are all trying to hard to all find the same thing...LOVE.

We just want to be loved. We want to be cared for. We want to be held. We want to be cherished. We want someone by our side to go through the hard time with us. We want someone to understand us. We want someone to accept us for who we are and not try to change us. We want to get along with someone's family. We want their family to be nice to us. WE want their family to accept us. We want that person in our life to be there for us and stand up for us. We want them to say to their family, hey I am trying to make it with this person and you are not making this any easier for me could you please go away! They would tell their family this person has done a lot for you and you in return should do a lot for them. Or at the very least treat them with respect. Their family should want to go out to dinner with you and should want you around. Their family should want to shower you with as much attention as you showered them for the holidays. You should not feel as though you constantly are doing everything for them and they are doing nothing. The person in your life should tell them that. The right person in your life would do that for you.

They would do anything for that person. They would do anything for that person to make them feel comfortable again. They would make them feel welcome. They would make them feel wanted. They would make them feel home again. They would not allow them to continue to feel like an outsider.

We want adoration and respect. We want them to accept our faults and take us for who we are even if that is bad. Even if that is not a good person or even if we have done things in our past that we are not proud of. WE want that person to say to us "It's ok, I may not understand, but I love you and I care and together we will handle it, together."

Then you will be like "YESSS!" and you feel like you can face the world because you and that person can handle your bills, your ex spouses, the issues with your kids, the crappy jobs, the no jobs, the no contracts, the no places to live, the changing places to live,the changing business, the issues with school, the issues with your family, the issues with their family, everything...they would be there with you and there by your side. We are all just a heart in need of rescue. The right person in your life would rescue you and save you for your own life if need be.

THEY WOULD SHIELD YOU! THEY WOULD RESCUE YOU!

I want someone to shield me too!

I had at one time today 7 people all text me at the same time mind you the same time...

"When will I find someone who love me for me"

"Will someone ever love me"

"I just want to find someone to love"

"I am tired of being a nice guy and getting nowhere"

"How do you know if someone is interested in you?"

"Is it too late to find love in my life?"

"Am I ever gonna find the one for me?"

I could not believe it. Am I all knowing about love or something??? Do I suddenly have all the answers? Why did these people come to me? I don't have the answers. I am looking for love just like they are. It actually intrigued me more than anything else. How many more are looking for love? many I am sure.

We all just want the same thing...we all just want to be loved.

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