I have so many Affirmations around everywhere I have an added for my room- Affirmation Station.
These affirmations are becoming my life force.
I don't know what I would do right now if I didn't have ENOUGH from Brave Girls to recite every day to remind me I AM ENOUGH. If I didn't read Expectations and Manifesto of Encouragement from White Hot Truth.
These parts are ESPECIALLY pertinent to me right now
There are Tibetan Buddhist monks in a temple in the Himalayas endlessly reciting mantras for the cessation of your suffering and for the flourishing of your happiness.
Someone you haven't met yet is already dreaming of adoring you.
Someone who is craving to be partnered, to be acknowledged, to ARRIVE, will get precisely what they want -- and even more. And because that gift will be so fantastical in it's reach and sweetness, it will quite magically alter their memory of angsty longing and render it all "So worth the wait."
Someone wants to kiss you, to hold you, to make tea for you. Someone is willing to lend you money, wants to know what your favourite food is, and treat you to a movie. Someone in your orbit has something immensely valuable to give you -- for free.
If I didn't say aloud You Have Permission from Goddess Leonie. If I didn't read my Top Points from Declaration of You to remind me what Success and other words mean to me. Or if I didn't read How I Want to Feel from Jessica Swifts Goal Intention Kit.
How would I Show Up and Shine if I didn't see that first thing in the morning to make me get out of bed and do JUST that, SHOW UP.
How would I cope if I didn't read Everything is Going to be Okay on my wall.
I don't know what I would do if I didn't recite Abundance from Goddess Leonie every day before I walked out my door before breakfast.
How would I stay on track if I didn't have Brave Girl Truth Cards, Truth Teller posters and 12 Key Zen Habits near my office desk.
On those Sucky days and nights when I feel blah, crying and melancholy....how would I get out of it if I didn't have my De-Suckify Idea List right there to remind me.
And, I don't know what I would do without the Affirmations from Blissbomed that have become a part of my life like this one
HELL YES HELL NO
No to the man who has a woman at home, but still tries to have you.
No to the man who doesn’t have his financial life in order.
No to the man who is hard to locate.
No to the man who is shady in his business dealings.
No to the man who starves you with very little communication or time together to keep you wanting him.
No to the man who describes your relationship as ‘complicated.’
No to the man who doesn’t make sure you came too.
No to the man who ‘accidentally’ shows you the check at the end of the meal.
No to the man who gets drunk and becomes a possessive asshole.
No to the man whose security comes from you wanting him.
No to the man who your gay friends would label ‘not good enough for you.’
No to the man who will put up with your bullshit without an apology from you.
No to the man who keeps borrowing money (or the spare bedroom) from his parents.
No to the man who, on the first date, discusses how ‘skilled’ he is with his tongue.
No to the man who calls your emotions ‘drama.’
No to the man who habitually escapes life with video games, pot, porn,
or self-help books.
No to the man who is any less a man than you’ve had before.
Yes to the man who says no to you, because he would be breaking promises elsewhere. Yes to the man who keeps figuring out what he wants.
Yes to the man who manages his appetites 90 percent of the time.
Yes to the man who wants to protect you.
Yes to the man who can break all the rules when the occasion calls for it.
Yes to the man who tries to communicate with God.
Yes to the man who goes on with his own life while he’s waiting for you.
Yes to the man who really tries to see it from your point of view no matter how much sense you’re not making.
Yes to the man who wants to provide for you.
Yes to the man who takes note of your favorite things and gives them to you.
Yes to the man who does something because he said he would, even if he is now bored with it.
Yes to the man who works his ass off every day.
Yes to the man who asks you what you need.
Yes to the man who wants to be your best friend.
Yes to the man who’s own self-respect is the top of his priority list.
Yes to the man who is skilled at having difficult conversations and doesn’t fight back with blaming, silence, yelling, or amnesia.
Yes to the man who lets you lavish your love on him and helps you bloom as a woman in the process.
Yes to the man who knows his worth, his liquor limit, his day rate, and his sell point.
Go find the man who you can say yes to …. and say YES.
Soon I am sure my room will be filled with these and books will be spilling out these mantras, mottos and affirmations. To some that may sound silly and crazy and busy.
To me it is the sound of healing...